怀着感恩的心，我阅读了每一封邮件并对您发表评论’我走了，对我失去父亲深表同情。 那是一场漫长而艰苦的战斗，他让我们感到骄傲。 你们中许多人也失去了父母或其他家庭成员，而我’无论我们身在世界何处，或生活状况如何，我们都会遭受多少痛苦。 我们可以通过分享的生活经验相互联系。 关于分享我父亲去世的消息，我实际上三思而后行。 我知道大多数人都会阅读博客来获取灵感和漂亮的东西，但是如此重大的生活事件将塑造我 永远，因此，我的博客反映了我。
有那么多人’我什至不认识我（和那些知道的人），花时间抽出一个甜美的话真的打动了我。 强烈感受到和热烈地倾泻了爱与支持。 I don’介意承认我需要它。 这让我很高兴我没有’t shut 您 out. And I thank 您 so very much for 您r own heart tugs over our loss.
我最好的朋友这个周末开车三个小时和我在一起，她的药是最好的。花我们’我们收到的都是华丽而深思熟虑的。我们赢了’不能做正式服务，但计划在今年夏天做些私密而特殊的事情，以纪念我们的父亲和他的记忆。 当然，生活还在继续，我’我实际上是感谢转移。 There’s no “relief”失去一个人，但我可以说知道自己不是一个安慰’t suffering and that the love 您 shared was acknowledged with nothing left unsaid or unfinished.
我们的儿子本周末开始打T球，看到所有可爱的小男孩和女孩都第一次穿着他们的制服打扮，放大并准备打球，我很开心’不由自主地思考，“life is good.” 看到小表弟们笑着玩耍对灵魂也有好处。
早上8点打完球后，我们出去吃早餐。 当我们到达时，停车场完全是空的，但是当我们完成并驶向外面时，我注意到一排排摩托车停在汽车前。 My Dad 被爱 骑，我可以’我们无奈，但选择相信那个星期六早晨的摩托车是他的信号。 How cool is that?! Do 您 get those same kinds of 迹象? I’d很荣幸知道。
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在我父亲成立一周年之际'死后，我和母亲去了默特尔比奇，这对他来说是一个特别的地方，因为他很喜欢打高尔夫球。当我们在酒店登记入住时，我们前面的车上有一个我父亲的车牌's initials….just those three letters. I truly believe things like 您r motorcycles are our angel'告诉我们他们还可以的方式。
哦，天哪，多么美妙！我同意，我'我很高兴得到这个信号。它帮助我整天呼吸更轻松。
在与癌症进行了短暂但艰苦的斗争之后，六年前我失去了父亲。我出乎意料的是，失去了我23岁的48岁丈夫，他在8月心脏病发作。专注，专注，关注美好时光。是的，那些小"signs" happen – especially if 您 allow 您rself to connect to them. I actually had one this morning over something my husband and I had an ongoing joke about. I really felt as though he was there making me laugh instead of cry, which I've done a lot of over the past 7 months. Thank 您 for sharing 您r feelings. Very sorry about 您r father. I will pray for 您 and 您r family. God bless.
我爸 was 您ng too and I feel he is missing out on so much not being here. I will accept the 迹象 wholeheartedly. I'm glad 您 hear 您 got a laugh today from 您r husband. We need to embrace all of our emotions for healing. It's okay and good! to get to smile. Thank 您 so much for 您r prayers. Praying for 您 too. Maybe our guys are all hanging out together in Heaven! 😉
继续让您和家人保持祈祷的甜美女孩！是的，我敢肯定，整个摩托车游行都是你的父亲's doing!! It was a "I'm做得很好的女婴"标志。我和我最年长的人参加了一场葬礼，因为几个月前过世了。乔希（Josh）是我女儿的高中同伴啦啦队长'，并且还曾就读过同一所大学。他只有24岁。在服务后，他的父母要求我们向他发射100个美丽明亮的彩色气球，以示敬意。当气球在美丽的阴天中形成时，使它们变得更加明显，一个倒置的J形成了。 J for Josh，倒挂是因为他是一位出色的体操运动员和啦啦队长。他没事的迹象。爱你的女孩！
Hi Lauren, 您've been such a good friend and I know 您r heart aches for me and my family. I remember 您r recent loss too. I just started crying reading about the balloons and upside down J! That is so awesome that 您 all got to witness that, what a gift! My 您ngest brother is only a few years older than Josh. My heart breaks for those 您ng guys.
Hi Meagan: Big hugs to 您 as 您 go through this difficult time! You will always have a lifetime of wonderful memories and I can promise 您 as time goes by the pain lessons and the happy memories push through….I know this from losing my dad at the age of 18. I have been following 您 for over a year now and I can honestly tell 您, that 您 inspire me daily! I so enjoy reading 您r blog! Don't ever change! You are a wonderful human being. God Bless 您 and 您r family. Hugs from Canada! Leslie 🙂
Oh Leslie, 您 were so 您ng! My best friend that came to visit this weekend is from Canada! Good things are from that country! 🙂 Thank 您 so much for writing.
梅根，对您的损失深表歉意。我知道您发布过有关父亲在圣诞节假期过得很艰难的消息。我希望他终于摆脱痛苦和安宁。我的Popo是一名棒球运动员，居住在圣路易斯红雀队，因此红雀队一直是我的标志。我们不'经常在休斯顿见不到太多这样的人，所以当我得到一个是否'是我的一名学生的路过或T恤上的'绝对是Po的打个招呼。新年过后，一个人住在我的后院，我经常看到他。然后一些蓝鸟出现了，他走了一段时间。星期五是他逝世六周年，在星期四晚上，我的小红衣主教回到我们的游泳池旁坐着。
Always look for those little hellos from 您r dad- it makes 您 focus on all the good times 您 had and helps ease the sadness. Best wishes!
是的，我将事情保持相对私密，但过去几年中发生的如此重大的事情一直很难。您'再来休斯顿！一世'll be thinking of 您 and 您r Popo when I see a Cardinal now too. Thanks for taking the time to write and share with me.
I absolutely see 迹象 like this, and I think it's so special that this one was sent to 您. As 您 go through hard times, I hope that 您 can draw on 您r memories and 迹象 like this.
是的，这个信号发送得很大！那天早上让我微笑。
我的大儿子出生后，父亲经过与癌症的艰苦奋战而过世。大约六个月后，我对他有了最生动的梦。我在哭泣，如此沮丧，他是如此平静与和平。他说他没有'我不明白为什么当我要再次见到他时我如此沮丧。显然，我没有'不要以为这是关于即将来临的厄运的预兆，但更多的是在那个时候'它的含义与地球上的含义相同。有一天我们会再次在一起，好像我们从未分离过。祝您和家人平安。愿您共同的爱为您带来安慰和康复。
噢，我'm so sorry 您r son didn't get more time with 您r Dad. That's one of the hardest things about losing a parent. 我爸 adored his grandchildren and they will miss him. But how lovely of 您r Dad to send 您 such peace through a dream. I do feel we will be reunited again and take comfort in that.
Dear 梅根，我 am so very sorry for 您r loss. No words can make 您r pain less, but hopefully knowing that tons of people are sending 您 light, love, and prayers helps to ease the pain a little. I have lost a couple of super special people in my life, and I believe if and when 您 are open to 迹象 您 will see them all around 您 all the time, specially when 您 need them most. Enjoy and take comfort in the little "visits" / "check-in" / "reminders" from 您r Dad. Prayers to 您 and 您r family from across the ocean in South Africa
卡米, 您 are so right. People like 您 sending love and light has helped tremendously. I was surprised how much I got out of it. When I first posted on Instagram的 about losing my Dad, I sat and cried as I read the sweet comments come in. And I've read them over and over. I will always know how much a kind word can mean and I plan to always pay it forward throughout the rest of my life. Thank 您 卡米 for writing too. And all the way from South Africa! I'd love to get to hear 您r voice in person! 🙂
-我也发现口音/方言很有趣… I sent 您 a little hello via Instagram的 (DM) to say hi.
对您的损失我感到非常抱歉。我喜欢标志的想法。几年前，当我的爷爷去世时，我的家人和我开始在地上看到几分钱。我们分散在几个州和城市之间，但是我们每个人都发现了一个便士，如果不是一个便士，如果不多的话。想到他将这些留给我们让我们知道他和我们在一起，真是令人感到非常安慰。已经两年半了，我仍然在这里和那里继续寻找一分钱。这总是让我想起他并微笑，因为我知道他仍在我身边，俯视我们所有人。我希望您和您的家人在这些小的迹象中感到安慰。
嗨，艾米丽！那有多美？便士也是我父亲的标志's dad (my grandpa) when he passed. I absolutely believe in those 迹象 and am so grateful for them.
我再次为您的损失感到抱歉，并一直在为您和您的家人祈祷！在我获得第四名之后，我开始关注您的博客健康状况，只是需要一些动力。这是我所关注的第一个博客。该博客将我引向了我一直检查的那个博客。我的时代'我被生病的婴儿困在他身边或只是度过了艰难的一天，您的帖子总是为我们锦上添花！您只需与我们分享对生活的热爱并与我们联系，就可以为外面的女人做很多事情。它'轮到我们为您服务了！大的拥抱和大量的祈祷！如果我一个人住在新奥尔良，我 'd给您一个大大的拥抱！照顾我的朋友！
我衷心地感谢你薇薇安！我喜欢听到您喜欢我的健身博客。当我不这样做时，我总是非常想念它'没有时间在那里张贴。但是，我确实打算继续在此发布！回到博客对我来说是件好事。我不'不知道你怎么和四个孩子在一起！您有时间阅读我的博客是一种荣幸，因为据我所知，您的时间肯定有限。我希望你能提出一些建议"you"时间，因为我们所有人都出于自己的需要和理智而需要它。你不是'离我也不远。从那以后，我为洛杉矶人提供了一个特别的地方'我的丈夫来自哪里！
梅根，我'm so sorry for 您r loss, and I want to thank 您 for deciding to share about it. “I know most people read blogs for inspiration and pretty things” – sharing 您r experience and being so open is inspiring and beautiful!
失去父母是如此困难– when I lost my dad to a heart attack almost 6 years ago, my husband and I were trying to get pregnant. All I could think when I was grieving was “I wish we could have had more time so he could meet his grandchild.” Then I looked at my 您nger sister, who was still single at the time, and I realized I was so lucky to have my dad walk me down the aisle at my wedding, something she would now never get to experience. It shifted my focus from what I had lost to instead treasuring the moments that we did have.
I love the story about the motorcycles, and I hope that 您 continue to see 迹象 of 您r dad all around 您. I definitely see my dad in ordinary things – funnily enough, when we used to talk on the phone to catch up, his FAVORITE expression was “life is good”. Seeing those words in 您r blog today made me smile. 🙂
I am so sorry for 您 loss ! dads rock but now 您rs will watch over 您 and 您r family from heaven ! Yes I believe in 迹象! when my Nonna passed away ( who fed outdoor cats all the time) ……我坐在厨房小岛上吃午餐，望着我的推拉门，那里有只我从未见过的猫盯着我！持续了两天，我终于跪下，告诉猫他是否在这里，让我知道她还好，然后谢谢，并告诉她我爱她。 （有点疯狂的时刻），猫永不回来！我觉得这是一个迹象！