大拥抱& Motorcycles

怀着感恩的心,我阅读了每一封邮件并对您发表评论’我走了,对我失去父亲深表同情。 那是一场漫长而艰苦的战斗,他让我们感到骄傲。 你们中许多人也失去了父母或其他家庭成员,而我’无论我们身在世界何处,或生活状况如何,我们都会遭受多少痛苦。 我们可以通过分享的生活经验相互联系。 关于分享我父亲去世的消息,我实际上三思而后行。 我知道大多数人都会阅读博客来获取灵感和漂亮的东西,但是如此重大的生活事件将塑造我 永远,因此,我的博客反映了我。

有那么多人’我什至不认识我(和那些知道的人),花时间抽出一个甜美的话真的打动了我。 强烈感受到和热烈地倾泻了爱与支持。 I don’介意承认我需要它。 这让我很高兴我没有’t shut 您 out.  And I thank 您 so very much for 您r own heart tugs over our loss. 
我最好的朋友这个周末开车三个小时和我在一起,她的药是最好的。花我们’我们收到的都是华丽而深思熟虑的。我们赢了’不能做正式服务,但计划在今年夏天做些私密而特殊的事情,以纪念我们的父亲和他的记忆。 当然,生活还在继续,我’我实际上是感谢转移。 There’s no “relief”失去一个人,但我可以说知道自己不是一个安慰’t suffering and that the love 您 shared was acknowledged with nothing left unsaid or unfinished.  
我们的儿子本周末开始打T球,看到所有可爱的小男孩和女孩都第一次穿着他们的制服打扮,放大并准备打球,我很开心’不由自主地思考,“life is good.”  看到小表弟们笑着玩耍对灵魂也有好处。 

早上8点打完球后,我们出去吃早餐。  当我们到达时,停车场完全是空的,但是当我们完成并驶向外面时,我注意到一排排摩托车停在汽车前。 My Dad 被爱 骑,我可以’我们无奈,但选择相信那个星期六早晨的摩托车是他的信号。 How cool is that?!  Do 您 get those same kinds of 迹象?  I’d很荣幸知道。 

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  1. 2015年3月29日/晚上10:35

    在我父亲成立一周年之际'死后,我和母亲去了默特尔比奇,这对他来说是一个特别的地方,因为他很喜欢打高尔夫球。当我们在酒店登记入住时,我们前面的车上有一个我父亲的车牌's initials….just those three letters. I truly believe things like 您r motorcycles are our angel'告诉我们他们还可以的方式。

    • 2015年3月30日/上午12:14

      哦,天哪,多么美妙!我同意,我'我很高兴得到这个信号。它帮助我整天呼吸更轻松。

  2. 2015年3月29日/下午10:47

    在与癌症进行了短暂但艰苦的斗争之后,六年前我失去了父亲。我出乎意料的是,失去了我23岁的48岁丈夫,他在8月心脏病发作。专注,专注,关注美好时光。是的,那些小"signs" happen – especially if 您 allow 您rself to connect to them. I actually had one this morning over something my husband and I had an ongoing joke about. I really felt as though he was there making me laugh instead of cry, which I've done a lot of over the past 7 months. Thank 您 for sharing 您r feelings. Very sorry about 您r father. I will pray for 您 and 您r family. God bless.

    • 2015年3月30日/上午12:17

      我爸 was 您ng too and I feel he is missing out on so much not being here. I will accept the 迹象 wholeheartedly. I'm glad 您 hear 您 got a laugh today from 您r husband. We need to embrace all of our emotions for healing. It's okay and good! to get to smile. Thank 您 so much for 您r prayers. Praying for 您 too. Maybe our guys are all hanging out together in Heaven! 😉

  3. 2015年3月29日/晚上10:48

    继续让您和家人保持祈祷的甜美女孩!是的,我敢肯定,整个摩托车游行都是你的父亲's doing!! It was a "I'm做得很好的女婴"标志。我和我最年长的人参加了一场葬礼,因为几个月前过世了。乔希(Josh)是我女儿的高中同伴啦啦队长',并且还曾就读过同一所大学。他只有24岁。在服务后,他的父母要求我们向他发射100个美丽明亮的彩色气球,以示敬意。当气球在美丽的阴天中形成时,使它们变得更加明显,一个倒置的J形成了。 J for Josh,倒挂是因为他是一位出色的体操运动员和啦啦队长。他没事的迹象。爱你的女孩!

    • 2015年3月30日/上午12:19

      Hi Lauren, 您've been such a good friend and I know 您r heart aches for me and my family. I remember 您r recent loss too. I just started crying reading about the balloons and upside down J! That is so awesome that 您 all got to witness that, what a gift! My 您ngest brother is only a few years older than Josh. My heart breaks for those 您ng guys.

  4. 2015年3月29日/下午11:06

    Hi Meagan: Big hugs to 您 as 您 go through this difficult time! You will always have a lifetime of wonderful memories and I can promise 您 as time goes by the pain lessons and the happy memories push through….I know this from losing my dad at the age of 18. I have been following 您 for over a year now and I can honestly tell 您, that 您 inspire me daily! I so enjoy reading 您r blog! Don't ever change! You are a wonderful human being. God Bless 您 and 您r family. Hugs from Canada! Leslie 🙂

    • 2015年3月30日/上午12:22

      Oh Leslie, 您 were so 您ng! My best friend that came to visit this weekend is from Canada! Good things are from that country! 🙂 Thank 您 so much for writing.

  5. 2015年3月30日/上午1:13

    梅根,对您的损失深表歉意。我知道您发布过有关父亲在圣诞节假期过得很艰难的消息。我希望他终于摆脱痛苦和安宁。我的Popo是一名棒球运动员,居住在圣路易斯红雀队,因此红雀队一直是我的标志。我们不'经常在休斯顿见不到太多这样的人,所以当我得到一个是否'是我的一名学生的路过或T恤上的'绝对是Po的打个招呼。新年过后,一个人住在我的后院,我经常看到他。然后一些蓝鸟出现了,他走了一段时间。星期五是他逝世六周年,在星期四晚上,我的小红衣主教回到我们的游泳池旁坐着。
    Always look for those little hellos from 您r dad- it makes 您 focus on all the good times 您 had and helps ease the sadness. Best wishes!

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:27

      是的,我将事情保持相对私密,但过去几年中发生的如此重大的事情一直很难。您'再来休斯顿!一世'll be thinking of 您 and 您r Popo when I see a Cardinal now too. Thanks for taking the time to write and share with me.

  6. 2015年3月30日/上午1:39

    I absolutely see 迹象 like this, and I think it's so special that this one was sent to 您. As 您 go through hard times, I hope that 您 can draw on 您r memories and 迹象 like this.

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:28

      是的,这个信号发送得很大!那天早上让我微笑。

  7. 2015年3月30日/上午3:17

    我的大儿子出生后,父亲经过与癌症的艰苦奋战而过世。大约六个月后,我对他有了最生动的梦。我在哭泣,如此沮丧,他是如此平静与和平。他说他没有'我不明白为什么当我要再次见到他时我如此沮丧。显然,我没有'不要以为这是关于即将来临的厄运的预兆,但更多的是在那个时候'它的含义与地球上的含义相同。有一天我们会再次在一起,好像我们从未分离过。祝您和家人平安。愿您共同的爱为您带来安慰和康复。

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:30

      噢,我'm so sorry 您r son didn't get more time with 您r Dad. That's one of the hardest things about losing a parent. 我爸 adored his grandchildren and they will miss him. But how lovely of 您r Dad to send 您 such peace through a dream. I do feel we will be reunited again and take comfort in that.

  8. 2015年3月30日/上午6:09

    Dear 梅根,我 am so very sorry for 您r loss. No words can make 您r pain less, but hopefully knowing that tons of people are sending 您 light, love, and prayers helps to ease the pain a little. I have lost a couple of super special people in my life, and I believe if and when 您 are open to 迹象 您 will see them all around 您 all the time, specially when 您 need them most. Enjoy and take comfort in the little "visits" / "check-in" / "reminders" from 您r Dad. Prayers to 您 and 您r family from across the ocean in South Africa

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:33

      卡米, 您 are so right. People like 您 sending love and light has helped tremendously. I was surprised how much I got out of it. When I first posted on Instagram的 about losing my Dad, I sat and cried as I read the sweet comments come in. And I've read them over and over. I will always know how much a kind word can mean and I plan to always pay it forward throughout the rest of my life. Thank 您 卡米 for writing too. And all the way from South Africa! I'd love to get to hear 您r voice in person! 🙂

    • 2015年4月1日/上午7:42

      -我也发现口音/方言很有趣… I sent 您 a little hello via Instagram的 (DM) to say hi.

  9. 2015年3月30日/下午1:19

    对您的损失我感到非常抱歉。我喜欢标志的想法。几年前,当我的爷爷去世时,我的家人和我开始在地上看到几分钱。我们分散在几个州和城市之间,但是我们每个人都发现了一个便士,如果不是一个便士,如果不多的话。想到他将这些留给我们让我们知道他和我们在一起,真是令人感到非常安慰。已经两年半了,我仍然在这里和那里继续寻找一分钱。这总是让我想起他并微笑,因为我知道他仍在我身边,俯视我们所有人。我希望您和您的家人在这些小的迹象中感到安慰。

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:35

      嗨,艾米丽!那有多美?便士也是我父亲的标志's dad (my grandpa) when he passed. I absolutely believe in those 迹象 and am so grateful for them.

  10. 2015年3月30日/下午6:20

    我再次为您的损失感到抱歉,并一直在为您和您的家人祈祷!在我获得第四名之后,我开始关注您的博客健康状况,只是需要一些动力。这是我所关注的第一个博客。该博客将我引向了我一直检查的那个博客。我的时代'我被生病的婴儿困在他身边或只是度过了艰难的一天,您的帖子总是为我们锦上添花!您只需与我们分享对生活的热爱并与我们联系,就可以为外面的女人做很多事情。它'轮到我们为您服务了!大的拥抱和大量的祈祷!如果我一个人住在新奥尔良,我 'd给您一个大大的拥抱!照顾我的朋友!

    • 2015年3月31日/下午1:38

      我衷心地感谢你薇薇安!我喜欢听到您喜欢我的健身博客。当我不这样做时,我总是非常想念它'没有时间在那里张贴。但是,我确实打算继续在此发布!回到博客对我来说是件好事。我不'不知道你怎么和四个孩子在一起!您有时间阅读我的博客是一种荣幸,因为据我所知,您的时间肯定有限。我希望你能提出一些建议"you"时间,因为我们所有人都出于自己的需要和理智而需要它。你不是'离我也不远。从那以后,我为洛杉矶人提供了一个特别的地方'我的丈夫来自哪里!

  11. 2015年3月31日/下午1:46

    梅根,我'm so sorry for 您r loss, and I want to thank 您 for deciding to share about it. “I know most people read blogs for inspiration and pretty things” – sharing 您r experience and being so open is inspiring and beautiful!
    失去父母是如此困难– when I lost my dad to a heart attack almost 6 years ago, my husband and I were trying to get pregnant. All I could think when I was grieving was “I wish we could have had more time so he could meet his grandchild.” Then I looked at my 您nger sister, who was still single at the time, and I realized I was so lucky to have my dad walk me down the aisle at my wedding, something she would now never get to experience. It shifted my focus from what I had lost to instead treasuring the moments that we did have.
    I love the story about the motorcycles, and I hope that 您 continue to see 迹象 of 您r dad all around 您. I definitely see my dad in ordinary things – funnily enough, when we used to talk on the phone to catch up, his FAVORITE expression was “life is good”. Seeing those words in 您r blog today made me smile. 🙂

  12. 2015年3月31日/晚上8:10

    I am so sorry for 您 loss ! dads rock but now 您rs will watch over 您 and 您r family from heaven ! Yes I believe in 迹象! when my Nonna passed away ( who fed outdoor cats all the time) ……我坐在厨房小岛上吃午餐,望着我的推拉门,那里有只我从未见过的猫盯着我!持续了两天,我终于跪下,告诉猫他是否在这里,让我知道她还好,然后谢谢,并告诉她我爱她。 (有点疯狂的时刻),猫永不回来!我觉得这是一个迹象!

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